heyya folks...first and foremost,i've been too occupied to update due to the many things on my to-do list that needs to be fulfilled within a period of time.i'm so glad that my obligations are done,well for now.let us all give a big hand and throw flower petals at my cousin,kak Qilah for her wedding day! BIG congrats from me :D can we get an "awwww" from the audience?! LOL.can't help but staring at this lovely couple thinking "when will it be my turn?".i know it's highly inappropriate for girls my age,or isn't it?may God bless the bride and groom always :)
moving on,as i promised some of my twitter followers,i shall elaborate more on the difference between guyfriend and boyfriend,and a little extra details on girlfriend and bestfriend as well.as far as i'm concerned,all of the above have the word 'friend' in them,indicating that they are people who are close to us in spite of not being blood-related.they're equally as important as our family members are to keep our feet on the ground at all times,especially when we're away from home and the only people we can depend on are them.however,each and every one of them play slightly different roles in our life.let's see to it one by one.
BOYFRIEND
upon hearing this very word,i'm more than sure that most girls,especially the single ones,will notice that their hearts skip a beat.a boyfriend is a guy lover,usually the one who makes an effort to make the first move but nowadays,they sometimes are the one to respond instead of act first.so what do boyfriends do?generally,they dedicate themselves to the girl whom they love,it doesn't matter whether or not they shower the girl with gifts and such,as long as they care about them and love them whole-heartedly.they're special and they have their own spot in their girls' hearts.however,sometimes,some girlfriends can't afford to open up about everything to their respective boyfriends due to their own issues.this doesn't mean a boyfriend doesn't deserve to know each and every inch about their girlfriends,it's just that,lovers need space too.just like the self-explanatory saying 'distance makes the heart fonder'.when words fail,this is when guyfriends come into the scene.
GUYFRIENDS
guyfriends are technically girlfriends with balls,haha.they are your shoulder to cry on,they are close to you,they are your soulmate but they're not as special as boyfriends.they do mean a lot though,just like a brotherly figure.they share their laughter and tears,all in one.you open up to them more freely and sometimes you'd prefer telling them your problems rather than going up to your girlfriends.they're sincere,loyal and trustworthy.you love them a lot and you never want to lose them,EVER.i have these kind of friends,quite a dozen of them and i love them all equally just like my own brothers.even though you're in a specific relationship,it's never a sin to hang out with your guyfriends once in awhile,after all,it's not like you're cheating on your other half.you just wanna have fun and increase your social circle.that's all.
i guess i've explained myself enough.a relationship shouldn't ruin any friendship in one way or another.it should instead be something to smile about each day,not something to be thought as a burden of.lay off the clingy and be more open-minded,alright y'all?till then.
"Talk is cheap,Lies are expensive" -Billie Joe Armstrong (Green Day)
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Boyfriend vs Guyfriend vs Girlfriend vs Bestfriend
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Friday, December 24, 2010
Dr Leanna Cox
indeed.i have been ranting a whole lot haven't i?it could either be because i think life is sometimes an asskisser and most of the time is a bitch,or maybe,it could be because of how obsessed i suddenly am with Scrubs.of course,my life had had its own ups and downs but never before in my life have i felt so empty..or maybe i did?what's with all these fickle thoughts anyhow?i know i started giving long,scary speeches because of Dr Cox,but it makes me wonder,does this ever-changing mindset relate to me being a big fan of J.D.?i did find myself quoting their dialogues a lot,not to mention all the monologue-ing habits i've been having after every incident i encounter.my obsession can be dangerous sometimes.but that's not what i wish to elaborate.lately,i notice how much the world had been such an asshole to me,the walls are starting to close in on me and a tide,yes a tide,is totally flooding in.what the hell just happened?first i recalled being in a room full of treats and now here i am in the dumpster.what have i done to deserve this anyway?sudden change of mood is not the best way of spending an most wanted 6-month break from any forms of academic-related activities or tasks,not to mention the total freedom from the dreadful SPM exams.results in March?do i look tad concerned?i've done my very best and now it's all in the hands of God.what i don't get is i don't see why my desire to get a part-time job should get any forms of 'NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO' *exclaim in descending voice volume like a man falling off a cliff*.give me 3 solid reasons why i shouldn't.safety?i'm looking for a job at the Curve,there are probably hundreds of surveillance cameras and eligible security guards in all angles.transport?brother-in-law works in an office there,if the stores aren't open yet i could always hang around his office for awhile before i start to work.workload?time constraint?you're gonna have to come up with better arguments than that.i seriously need a job but currently my mobility's a little bit limited due to everyone's hesitance and lack of support -_-" i wish i could drive.how unfair is it that a car that was supposed to be shared equally is being dominated by one individual alone?i think you can make a wild guess that i am never the lucky one in this case.no jobs,no car,why the hell am i 18 again?i don't freaking want a car since i'm gonna have to spend my moolah on the fuel,maintenance and whatnot,i just need wheels to move around (maybe i should get a bike?LOL).my point is,why is it that the youngest in the family is always being underestimated?sure,we're young and less wiser compared to everyone else in the family,doesn't mean we don't deserve any freedom or rights to undergo adulthood at all.yeah sure,we're the babies of our families,but we're not retarded.we'll be fully-grown and will have to face our lvies independently.why can't anyone accept that?i guess i've proven my point enough.pffftt..
The shit so deep you can't run away
I beg to differ on the contrary
I agree with every word that you say
Talk is cheap and lies are expensive
My wallet's fat and so is my head
Hit and run and then I'll hit you again
I'm a smartass but I'm playing dumb
Standards set and broken all the time
Control the chaos behind a gun
Call it as I see it even if
I was born deaf, blind and dumb
Losers winning big on the lottery
Rehab rejects still sniffing glue
Constant refutation with myself
I'm victim of a catch 22
I have no belief
But I believe I'm a walking contradiction
And I ain't got no right
-WALKING CONTRADICTION BY GREEN DAY
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Monday, December 20, 2010
One Love = One Hundred Bucks
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Saturday, December 18, 2010
Monday, December 13, 2010
Give Me Novacaine
Bitter sweet migraine in my head
Its like a throbbing tooth ache of the mind
I can't take this feeling anymore
Drain the pressure from the swelling
The sensation's overwhelming
Give me a long kiss goodnight
And everything will be alright
Tell me that I won't feel a thing
So give me novacaine
Out of body and out of mind
Kiss the demons out of my dreams
I get the funny feeling, thats alright
Jimmy says it's better than air
I'll tell you why
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Sunday, December 12, 2010
This Staircase vs That Closet vs Those Bowling Alleys
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Wake me Up When SPM Ends - in Words
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Saturday, December 11, 2010
Wake me Up When SPM Ends - in Pixels
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Saturday, November 20, 2010
To Activians with Love
a fork stuck in the road.
Time grabs you by the wrist;
directs you where to go.
So make the best of this test
and don't ask why.
It's not a question
but a lesson learned in time.
It's something unpredictable
but in the end it's right.
I hope you had the time of your life.
So take the photographs
and still frames in your mind.
Hang it on a shelf
In good health and good time.
Tattoos of memories
and dead skin on trial.
For what it's worth,
it was worth all the while.
It's something unpredictable
but in the end it's right.
I hope you had the time of your life."
this is my last day both on Twitter and Blogger,so,as my final words before i head off to the battlefield,forgive me for all my mistakes,pray for my success and wait for my return.
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Friday, November 19, 2010
Do You Have the Time to Listen to Me Whine?
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Thursday, November 18, 2010
A Day Without an Idiot Box
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Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Afi's 2nd Anniversary
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Hari Raya Qurban
MENGHAYATI HARI RAYA KORBAN
Oleh:
Ustaz Sayed Hasan Alatas
'IDUL ADHA disebut juga sebagai Hari Raya Korban ataupun Hari Raya Haji. Ramai ummat Islam yang mampu menyembelih korban untuk dibagi-bagikan kepada fakir miskin. Ramai juga ummat Islam yang mencukupi syarat, menunaikan Ibadah Haji ke Baitullahilharam. Semangat pengorbanan yang telah dibuktikan oleh Nabi Ibrahim a.s. dilanjutkan pula oleh ummat Islam untuk membantu mereka yang susah.
Jika sifat suka berkorban ini meresap ke jiwa seluruh ummat Islam Isya-Allah akan ujud ketenangan dan kedamainan dalam masyarakat dan akan dekatlah jurang yang memisahkan antara yang kaya dengan yang miskin, antara yang kuat dengan yang lemah, antara penguasa dengan rakyat biasa.
Mereka yang kaya mengorbankan sebahagian daripada hartanya untuk membantu mereka yang didalam kesusahan, seperti yang biasa dialami oleh fakir miskin, yatim piatu ataupun sesiapa yang memerlukan pertulungan. Mereka yang telah menerima bantuan sepatutnya mensyukurinya dan berusaha dengan sekuat tenaga tidak hanya bergantung kepada pemberian orang, Rasullah s.a.w.telah mengingatkan bahwa:
“Tangan diatas lebih baik daripada tangan dibawah".
Oleh karena itu perlulah kita bekerja keras untuk meningkatkan taraf kehidupan kita. Jika kita rajin berusaha, seperti mengolah (mengerjakan) tanah yang terbiar, menanam berbagai tanaman, memelihara hewan ternak, memilihara ikan dan sebagainya Insya-Allah disatu masa taraf kehidupan kita akan berubah kepada yang lebih baik.
Ibadah Haji ialah ibadah yang diwajibkan kepada mereka yang mampu mengerjakan sekali seumur hidup, Allah s.w.t.berfirman yang maksudnya:
"Dan serulah manusia untuk mengerjakan Haji, niscaya mereka akan datang kepadamu dengan berjalan kaki dan mengenderai unta yang kurus (disebabkan jauhnya berjalan) yang datang dari segenap penjuru yang jauh. Supaya mereka menyaksikan berbagai munafaat bagi mereka dan supaya mereka menyebutkan nama Allah pada hari yang ditentukan, karena rezeki yang Allah telah anugerahkan kepada mereka berupa binatang ternak. Maka makanlah sebahagian daripadanya dan berilah makan orang yang sengsara dan fakir."(Qur'an. S.al-Hajj:27-28)
Sungguh besar menafaat yang akan diperoleh mereka yang mendapat kesempatan menunaikan ibadah haji, antaranya, Insya-Allah akan terjalin perasaan ukhuwah Islamiah sedunia, menanamkan rasa persamaan, mendidik rohani dan jasmani kita supaya tabah dan sabar menghadapi cobaan. Dapat melihat sendiri tempat tempat sejarah Nabi Ibrahim dan Ismail, tempat bersejarah ketika Rasulallah s.a.w. dan sahabat berjuang menegakkan kebenaran dan keadilan dan mengajak manusia kejalan yang benar jalan yang diredhai Allah s.w.t. yang terkandung dalam Islam.
Mereka yang datang menunaikan ibadah haji terdiri daripada berbagai bangsa yang datang dari segenap penjuru dunia, dengan demikian kita saling berkenalan dan dapat mempelajari adat manusia dari berbagai bangsa dan suku puak.
Berbagai kesukaran dari mula mempersiapkan perbelanjaan untuk yang pergi dan untuk yang ditinggalkan. Kesukaran dalam perjalanan, kesukaran menghadapi berbagai ragam manusia, kesukaran cuaca yang berbeda dari tempat asal kita, dan sebagainya, semua itu akan membentuk diri dan peribadi kita menjadi manusia yang sabar dan tabah menghadapi cubaan hidup.
Kita berdo'a kepada Allah s.w.t. semoga diampuninya segala dosa-dosa kita selama masa yang lalu, baik dosa yang mungkin kita telah lakukan terhadap diri ataupun terhadap mereka yang lemah. Kita mohon kepada Allah s.w.t. semoga diterimanya segala amal ibadah kita dan akhirnya kita akan memperoleh Husnul Khatimah, akhir yang baik dan dapatlah kehidupan kita diberkati dan diberikan ketenangan dan diselamatkan
Dimuatnaik pada: Rabu 13 Zulqaedah 1426 (15 Disember 2005)
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Saturday, November 13, 2010
Blog Review - 1 Hari 1 Blog di Riwayat Hariku
i found out about this and i thought,why don't i give it a shot right?after all,apart from music,blogging IS another one of my largest passions too ;)
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Thursday, November 11, 2010
Dreading 12-year-olds 12 days Prior SPM
can't believe how fast time flies,yesterday i remembered being 12 and getting my UPSR result slip and now it's 12 days until my SPM! congrats to all successful UPSR candidates :) savour your easy going life before you turn 17,LMAO.
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Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Surprise 'Good Luck' Dinner
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Sunday, November 7, 2010
Marabahaya Cover
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